so... we had met through myspace. We had just started dating. He was really into me and then he disappeared and started ignoring my messages. Eventually, he deleted me from his myspace page. A week later he deleted his entire page. It's been a few months and I see that he has a new private page up. I have not spoken to him by email or phone for several months. I think he does this to many many girls. i havr no idea why!? it's emotional use not sexual...
Do I:
1)try to be mature and ignore ignore ignore, or
2)do i send him a friend request 閳?just to let him know i get this game?!
I forgot to mention that he has bipolar and is on lithium. his excuses for not talking to me were that he was dealing with bad things and was hospitalized (i don't know it that's even true). but the new myspace page is hurtful and really pisses me off!
Myspace dillema... hmmm?
I think the guy is depressed....he may be severely going through something, or he found out something about you and decided not to go through with it. He's a jerk for not explaining his reasons why other then the fact that he was at the hospital. But then he may have been in the hospital. You won't actually know that.
I think you should just be mature about it and just ignore him. If it really gives you a peace of mind, then just message him on MySpace...don't ask to be his friend because he won't add you. Tell him how you feel through your message and see if he replies. If he doesn't, there's your answer. Move on. If he does, at least you will have some type of closure and you can move on if you'd like.
Just an FYI, I'm sure you know this, but there are a lot of crazies on MySpace. Just be careful the next time you meet a guy you end up dating.....the last thing you want is a weirded out guy who has problems and could potentially hurt you emotionally, physically or sexually. Try to see if you can find someone within your range....meaning, your location, and in person.
Myspace dillema... hmmm?
Hate to tell you this, but online relationships that work out are VERY VERY rare. Im sure you could find someone better in real life
Myspace dillema... hmmm?
... delete your page... it'd be so much easier
Myspace dillema... hmmm?
the possible reasons why he disappeared are....
a) he is using fake identity for his page
( ie. fake pics or fake informations )
b) he lost interest in you.
c) he is an online player and been doing this to many girls.
d) he has some issues and cannot have a real relationship
e) he found a new girl and moved on
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