Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

Ok, so my boyfriend kind of disappeared off the face of the Earth a couple of weeks ago, and i decided to return the favor.Since he acted as if it wasn't a major deal. So i turned my phone off for a week. I'm not going to be on myspace or yahoo messager. So no one can contact me So that no on can say they talked to me or heard of me. Is this smart (so he can feel my pain of worrying and so i can have a break.) or is it too risky to my relationship? I know there will be a fight because when we was fighting about him being gone...I asked "so i cant complain but you can"he said, "yea" I asked why he said "thats just how things are" I asked "so i dont have control" "why are you always changing my words"

I think thats about it.

But am I going about it the wrong way with my payback?

lil court

ps. When i talk to him next I'll also say I'll call back and not call or get off the phone with him because i need to call my family-member at 1 am. I want him to feel how i felt.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

These are the kinds of games no one wins.

When you grow up you will be ready for a relationship.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

You are making a mistake.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

Sounds pretty childish. How do you know there isn't some good reason he's been out of contact? Besides, if you are completely out of contact, how does this affect your relationship with your other friends?

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

yes it is childish to resort to playing games and paying back for how he treated you. he was wrong, but you are as well. find a new guy so you don't have to go on with playing games with people for your entire relationship.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

LOL- I am only laughing cause I disappear too.

Don't do that, you will just add to this fire. Payback is never a smart move in love it just gets out of hand.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

You know I would have done the same thing as you, I give you points for actually lasting a whole week! Did it work? I believe you feed them with their own medicine hey, it has always worked for me. Keep strong.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

u r very childish for doin that y dont u ask him y u wernt able to talk to him.

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

The short answer here is that he disrespected you. He didn't show any thought for how his 'disappearence' would make you feel, what the consequences of his actions would be to the relationship, or whether he even cared if you talked to him when you got back.

I have gone through this one before too. If I were to do it over again... (I did not play a return game with my guy, I just let it go.) I would not accept this behaviour. His was childish. It was respectful of your feelings. And, if it were important - he should have taken the time to discuss your hurt with you. But, he acted as though you somehow deserved to be treated like that...

That's not cool.

Personally, if it happened to me again. I would tell the gent how I felt, then break up with him and move on. You weren't worth a phone call, he's not worth your time.

Good Luck,

I know this sucks.

Livia-

Are my games childish or just a nice way to get him to understand?

you are playing a dangerous game. i can say that because only a little man can understand what you are trying to say. and i think your bf can't understand it.