Monday, December 28, 2009

Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

My ex and I had a truamatic relationship to make it a bit short. He told me he liked me online and I (like an idiot) told him I liked him back). Thus a relationship was born. I thought about it and told him a week later tht I couldn't have a relationship with him because he was like a brother to me. end of chapter. That was at the end of the school year.



He has a myspace and he deleted me. I asked him why and then he ignored me but sent in another friend request anyway. I accepted it and thought everything was cool until I kept getting messages that said I was shallow for dumping him and that we shouldn't be friends anymore because he hardly knew me. It is true that we've only known each other for some months but WE WERE CLOSE! It hurts me that he insulted me this way and that he calls me "his simple friend"



The other day, I posted a blog about meeting someone new and how I had hopes. I NEVER expected him to read it because NO ONE reads my blog but he did. Now he won't talk to me



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

Yes i think he is playing mind games and has alot of issues. I mean you should not be worrying about nobody but yourself and so what, if he wants to get mad about the whole situation, then thats his prob. All i have to tell you is don't give into his foolish games if he can't accept the fact that you just want to be friends and nothing more then just call it a day and move on he is nothing but just a bump in the road. He is just desprate and making you feel bad about nothing.



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

just move on.



he is just mad you broke up with him.



explain to him whats going on.



%26amp;%26amp; did yall meet on myspace?



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

guys in general can't be friends with a girl after they were in a relationship with them-even if its only a week. It's just the way we're wired. It's his loss



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

I think that you should just let him be for a while and don't let him interfere with your life. after a while tell him how you feel and that you still want to be friends, no hard feelings. and if he can't except that, tell him that you can't be friends with him. good luck!



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

Who cares! You met someone new, WTF do you care if the old guy reads about it, or talks to you, or cares?? Get over it and grow up.



If he's sending you messages you don't want to read, block his MySpace, IM, text, email, and everything else. Just erase him from your life totally.



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

Give him some time, he is just having a hard time with feelings of rejection. Move on and keep busy with other friends, if he really is your friend he will sooner or later contact you, if not then you need to just accept this. He might be having a difficult time viewing you as just his friend and therefore may not be interested. Either way you need to accept his decision and move past this. Best of luck to you!



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

Sorry but what do you expect. You tell him you cant have a relationship which obviously hurt him and then you cant understand why he ignores you. Let him move on and find someone else to love and before you get someone to love you, be sure you do want a relationship first. Otherwise other men will be hurt all over again



Is my ex playing mind games with me and should I be worried?

I am going to take the role of the insensitive guy here... Why on earth did you tell him you liked him if you really didn't?



Let me tell you a secret: Men can be just a s emotional as women. He may have been very emotionally attached to you, only to have you tell him that he was not "dating" material. That can be a huge blow to a man's ego. Like many men, he seems to be doing what comes natural, and just getting really mad about it. Anger is a lot easier to handle than sadness and heartbreak.



Maybe he's just distressed about losing what he thought he had...

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